jealousy.
Is it something that we need to be ashamed about? Should I be bothered that I am harboring feelings of jealousy towards one of my boyfriend’s friends.
Apparently, she just broke up with her boyfriend recently, and because of that, she’s been calling my boyfriend at past midnight for a few consecutive days now.
Okay, so the girl needs cheering up. Fine. Let me try to put myself in her shoes. Would I be doing the same thing? I’m trying to think about a really close guy friend who has a girlfriend. I can’t think of any. Most of my close guy friends were always single. And when they get attached, things usually fade away. Personally, I understand what it’s like to be in a relationship and I wouldn’t want to impose a priority on myself. Maybe I just didn’t have a friendship that is like theirs, I don’t know.
Now my question is, do I have the right to feel bad about this? Or am I being too possessive and obsessive?
I can tell you one thing, it’s not the greatest feeling in the world. I should try to rid myself of these feelings. I don’t think it’s right. They’ve been friends long before I came into his life and so I guess she has some rights over him. Maybe I should just wait this out till she gets over her boyfriend. Hopefully she finds a new one soon.
